My Character lessons have moved from Compassion to Conflict! Since conflicts happen throughout one's school years and beyond, when one know how to solve conflicts in a respectful way, school becomes a more compassionate place. Last year, we introduced the Kelso's and KC's Choice conflict resolution curriculum. This year, the homeroom teachers and I are reviewing it with classes and introducing it for the first time to the Fifth Age and many of the Sixth Agers. The program requires kids to communicate verbally and non-verbally in an effort to understand and then produce positive win/win results.
Kelso's Choice gives kids nine ways to solve small problems such as pushing in line or not sharing a toy. Students are encouraged to try two of the choices before seeking help from a trusted adult at school. If however, the problem is big such as being pushed down by someone at recess, students are told to go directly to an adult for help (and this is not tattling). Delivering the lessons are fun because the curriculum uses card games, DVD's, puppets, role plays, and art projects .
The lessons will be taught and highlighted throughout the year. The Kelso's Choice wheel is displayed in each homeroom and many other locations around school. It is a strong visual reference and reminder to students! I love it when I hear kids say, "How would Kelso solve this problem!" Please encourage your sons and daughters to use it at home with siblings and friends.
